Make the right decisions.
Make the right decisions because the consequences of your decsions are far reaching.
Oh my God!
I see it in my son and daughter they have taken on the old me! It is scary, I hope it’s not too late to change things?
They procrastinate and have low self esteem! It’s no wonder, when you suddenly turn their whole world upside down by changing their lives.
Who do they trust now? When their parents can’t even live together?
Who is the one they turn to when they are unsure of things, is it mum or dad?
Their whole existence has become a tug of war. How can they make the right decisions?
Is their ability to make the right decisions influenced by dad, by mum or just turmoil.
Sure we both love our children and we devote our whole time to them when we have them.
I often wonder how their minds perceive it? Is it similar to the confusion that I feel?
Or should I say used to feel.
I remember asking Michael about the best way to protect children from this situation and the environment that we created.
I must thank you dearly Michael because your response catapulted the beginning of the healing process for me.
Your words were just love them and let them know that you love them. Make them feel special.
Deep down I thought I was doing that, however I was gripped with fear and they were only sensing fear.
Those words by Michael made me realize this and from that day on the situation began to change.
Suddenly the holidays we took were fun and a sense of adventure. Fear of the responsibility that I had when I was with them disappeared.
I started to enjoy their company I began telling them how special they were and that I loved them.
My daughter is ten and she is beginning to swell up with pride when I tell her how wonderful she is.
I have a lot of work to do with my son, he is fourteen and I believe he is carrying the burden of guilt for our separation.
I believe he thinks that all the arguing that took place was over the way we were bringing him up.
He will not make the right decisions or for that matter any decisions and prefers to just accept things the way they are.
He often makes sarcastic comments about my dreaming of a better life for all of us.
I don’t think he believes this is possible.
Man have I got a lot of work to do.
I guess the point that I am trying to make is that our actions and the way we live our lives are closely mirrored by our children.
It’s not what we say that they respond to but whether or not we live what we say!
I really believe that I am beginning to understand my purpose, it’s not just about being successful and having money.
It’s about living our lives in a way that makes a positive difference for our families and all of the people we come into contact with.
Especially the Shae’s of this world for they teach us compassion and understanding.
If you don’t know the story about Shae, do yourself a favor and listen to the recorded leaders call presented by Michael and Sarah Thompson on Monday the 20th June.
To everybody in this mastermind group, it is only through your honesty and courage to write from the heart that I have the courage to do so.
This is how we all grow towards greatness.
To Michael and Linda, your vision of creating something bigger than all
of us is continually gathering momentum.
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